If as a woman (especially as a woman of God), all you look forward too is people telling you 'Oh, you look so lovely' or 'Wow! I love your dress/shoes/hair/profile picture!', then as Pastor Bemigho Omayuku said you 'no get yasef'. People must be able to say MORE about you than 'that'. Because, indeed, as a veritable Daughter of Zion, you are more than just the sum total of all your 'stuff'!
See, there is nothing wrong in looking good. I like to look good. I make an effort (especially because my Mgm just needs to get up and he looks good! No effort needed and this Ekiti born, Akwa-Ibom by marriage woman shall not carry last o! Ah! I must not! Lol!) Yes, but as much as I want to look good on the outside I am committed to making sure I am even more empowered on the inside. I place a higher premium on the spiritual side of me. You and I know that they shall not be looking at our face and 'klot' to enter heaven. Plus I don't want the same people who told me how nice I looked to sneer at me the moment I walk away: See her, empty headed woman! Just fine for notin!
Lailai! People should know that, as pretty and dainty as you and I look, should they 'try' us in the things of the Spirit, then they will discover that khaki no be rubber! That our Father is the Lion of the Tribe of Judah! And that makes me a Lioness! I roar in the place of prayer. Sistamine, if you are not sure that this is you, then it is time to get ya sef o!